A641.1.3.RB - What is Great Leadership?
In order to solidify the mental image of good leadership and poor leadership Boyatzis (2017) suggested a simple exercise. He said to get a blank sheet of paper and divide it into two columns. At the top of the column on the left he said to put the name of a great leader that I have worked with; one who inspired me to be better and to do better, one with whom I really enjoyed working. At the top of the right-hand column he indicated that I put the name of a mediocre leader; one who did not bring out the best in me and whom I tried to avoid. After completing the exercise Boyatzis essentially said, “look at the right hand column. See, you already know what great leadership is!” (2017).
As I reflected back on the two leaders I considered the specific ways in which they interacted with the people they led and how they affected me personally. The first leader, the one who inspired me to be better, was the leader of a volunteer organization that I was a part of. He was always positive and upbeat; he seemed to give energy to everyone that was around him. He was kind-hearted and gentle; it was evident that he cared deeply for everyone he came into contact with. He remembered the details about people, their lives, and their families. It was very common for him to see someone he had not seen in a long time and ask something like “how is your mother doing? I remember you said she was ill.” People naturally gravitated toward him and naturally wanted to follow him. He did not use a “command and control” style with the people he led; he didn’t need to, he was able to naturally inspire them to do more and be better. Personally I hung on every word that he said. He frequently told stories about his past or about other people he had known. Those stories did a couple things to improve his ability to lead. First, they humanized him and they showed that he made mistakes and that he had good days and bad. Additionally the stories helped to develop rapport with others and opened himself up to being known personally by them. When that personal connection was made people wanted to follow his lead. In many of my leadership opportunities I have tried to emulate this great man.
The other leader I reflected about, the one I put at the top of the right hand column, did not personally inspire me. He “ruled with an iron fist” and used a “command and control” leadership technique. He was not personal with anybody; it seemed that he did not care about those he led, and he was not open to us getting to know him on a personal level. He seemed to only be concerned that we get results, that we fall in line, and that we stay out of trouble to keep him out of the microscope of upper management. There were several instances that he behaved in a hypocritical way; he would discipline others for doing things that he had done previously himself. His leadership was in the “do as I say, not as I do” style. People avoided him because he seemed to consume energy instead of inspire. It was not a good day when you were called into his office. When he was finally removed from his position a sense of relief flooded over the workforce.
As I reflect back on these two leaders that I have worked with, Boyatzis’ statement becomes clear; that leadership is not a person, it is a relationship. Leadership is concerned with the interactions and the relationship between people who lead and people who are led; it is a way of interacting that brings out the best in people and inspires them to lift themselves higher. (2017). “Outstanding leaders are resonant, they are in tune with you; they are in sync” (Boyatzis, 2017). I aspire to be part of the 20-30% of effective leaders that Boyatzis (2017) mentioned. I aspire to develop quality relationships with those I lead, and to be a resonant leader. Luckily, as Boyatzis (2017) demonstrated, I already know how.
Reference
Boyatzis, R. (Jan 6, 2017). What is great leadership? [Video File]. Retrieved from https://youtu.be/X1eCiWB1UD4
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